Minimalism as Self-Care: How Letting Go is Nourishing My Mind, Body, and Soul

October 11, 2024

 Discovering that true self-care isn’t about adding more—it’s about letting go of what no longer serves and creating space for what truly nourishes.

Self-care has always been marketed to us as something to add—more products, more routines, more tasks to squeeze into an already busy life. But what if self-care was actually about subtracting? What if, instead of adding more, we focused on clearing out the unnecessary until we’re left with only what truly nourishes us?


Minimalism, I’ve come to realize, is the ultimate form of self-care. It’s not just about creating physical space; it’s about creating mental and emotional space, too. It’s about letting go of everything that no longer serves me—whether that’s clutter in my home, unproductive habits, or toxic narratives I’ve internalized. It’s about curating a life that feels gentle, aligned, and light.


Creating Space for Myself


When I first began decluttering my home, I was focused on the obvious: getting rid of excess clothes, simplifying my kitchen, clearing out storage. But as the physical space around me began to open up, I noticed a surprising shift inside. With less visual clutter, I felt less overwhelmed. With fewer distractions, I found myself breathing deeper, moving slower, and savoring the quiet moments in between.

I began to see that minimalism wasn’t just about getting rid of things. It was about creating a life that supports my well-being. The more I let go, the more I felt a sense of clarity, lightness, and ease. My mornings are no longer rushed; I’m able to linger over a cup of tea, sit quietly with my thoughts, and move through my day with intention. The emotional bandwidth I used to spend managing “stuff” is now available for living.


Letting Go as a Form of Nourishment


Minimalism has shifted my approach to self-care from something I do to something I am. I no longer think of it as a checklist of activities—exercise, skincare, meditation—but as a mindset, a way of being. It’s in the decision to clear my schedule so I have time to rest. It’s in the way I edit my wardrobe down to pieces that feel good on my skin. It’s in choosing to let go of relationships that drain me, habits that distract me, and expectations that confine me.


Every time I let something go—whether it’s a physical item or an old belief—I’m making room for something more nourishing. I’m creating space for joy, for creativity, for me. And that, I’ve realized, is the most profound self-care practice of all.


Choosing What to Hold Onto


Minimalism isn’t just about letting go; it’s also about choosing what to hold onto. And I’m choosing to hold onto what makes me feel alive. I’m keeping the books that inspire me, the clothes that make me feel strong and beautiful, the rituals that ground me. I’m holding onto the people and practices that light me up, that fill me with a sense of purpose and peace.


I’m curating a life that nourishes my mind, body, and soul—not by adding more, but by carefully selecting the right things. And in doing so, I’m discovering that the less I have, the more abundant my life feels.


A Life That Feels Like Enough


Ultimately, this journey is teaching me that self-care isn’t about chasing an ideal. It’s about creating a life that feels sustainable. A life that has room for rest, for growth, for stillness, and for joy. It’s about letting go of the need to prove my worth through busyness and productivity, and instead embracing the radical notion that I am already enough.


Minimalism, at its core, is an act of self-love. It’s a way of saying: I deserve a life that feels spacious. I deserve to be surrounded by what truly matters. I deserve to feel at home in my own mind and body. And I’m willing to release everything that stands in the way.

Because when I let go of what’s weighing me down, I find that I’m left with something extraordinary: space to truly live.


XoXo,

Sia

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