Creating Freedom and Redefining Home: Minimalism as a Path to Living Lightly

October 11, 2024

Creating a life of freedom, presence, and adventure by embracing simplicity, redefining home, and letting go of the need for certainty.

When I began stripping my life down to its barest essentials, I wasn’t just aiming to live with less. I wanted to live more freely. More intentionally. I wanted my life to feel expansive, spacious—like a deep breath of fresh air. Minimalism, for me, was never just about letting go of material clutter; it was about creating space for freedom, for joy, and for a life that aligned with what I truly valued.


As I prepare for the next chapter—our nomadic journey—I realize that this process of clearing out has been more than just logistical. It’s been a redefinition of what freedom really means. It’s about creating a life that’s not only free of clutter but also free of expectations, limitations, and fears. A life that’s fluid, open, and unbound.


This transition isn’t just a move from one place to another. It’s a complete reimagining of what it means to live fully—to live lightly and with intention, wherever we land.


From Safety Nets to Wings: Embracing the Unknown


Stepping into a nomadic lifestyle, especially with a child, brings both exhilaration and fear. There’s a constant hum of uncertainty. Where will we go first? Will we find communities that welcome us? Can we feel at home without having a permanent address?

But here’s what I’m learning: security isn’t found in fixed plans or knowing all the answers. It’s something we create within ourselves. Our sense of home, stability, and rootedness doesn’t come from the walls around us—it comes from the love and connection we carry. The more I embrace this path, the more I realize that true freedom isn’t about escaping stability—it’s about creating it from the inside. It’s about trusting that I can navigate uncertainty, make mistakes, and adapt as the journey unfolds.


Yes, there’s fear in this choice. But there’s also power. I’m choosing to build my wings as I fly, creating a life that’s guided not by fear of the unknown, but by a deep love of possibility.


Redefining Home: A Feeling, Not a Place


For the longest time, I thought home meant a fixed place—a house filled with familiar things that made me feel grounded. But now, I’m learning that home isn’t about where we are; it’s about who we are. It’s about how we show up in the world, how we create belonging from within.


In this next chapter, my son and I are redefining home. Home can be anywhere—a small apartment in Lisbon, a cabin in Colombia, or a rented seaside retreat in Bali. Home is found in the routines we create, the bedtime stories we share, and the morning rituals that ground us. I’m choosing to see every place we land not as temporary, but as a chance to create a portable sense of belonging.


We’re building our home not by staying in one place but by carrying the essence of home within us—finding comfort in constant change, rooting ourselves in presence, and embracing the adventure of being in motion.


Freedom in Simplicity: Letting Go to Make Space for What Matters


If minimalism has taught me anything, it’s that freedom is found in simplicity. It’s found in the choice to let go of what weighs us down so we can make space for what truly matters. As I prepare for our nomadic life, I’m leaning into this idea more deeply. Each item I decide to pack has to earn its place. What adds value? What nourishes our well-being? What is truly essential?


Our bags will be light—just a few outfits, a small collection of books, and my son’s favorite toys. But this lightness is exactly what I want for our lives. It’s a reminder that we don’t need much to feel whole. We don’t need excess to feel abundant. We need only what truly serves us.


Facing the Doubts: Am I Giving My Son Enough?


There are moments when doubt creeps in. Will this lifestyle be too unpredictable for my son? There’s a script that says children need structure and permanence to thrive. But what if what he truly needs is the opposite? What if, instead of teaching him to seek stability in one place, I teach him to embrace change? What if I give him the gift of curiosity—the ability to see the world not as something to settle into, but as something to explore?


Yes, there will be challenges. There will be days when we miss the comforts of a more traditional life. But I want my son to grow up knowing that home is wherever we choose to make it, that freedom is found in being, not in having. I want him to see that life doesn’t have to be static to be rich. The world is vast and full of possibility, and we are free to explore it.


Embracing the Spirit of Wanderlust


This life we’re stepping into isn’t about escaping the past—it’s about embracing the spirit of wanderlust that has always lived within me. It’s about showing my son that we don’t have to follow the traditional path to find happiness or security. We can carve out our own path, as winding and unconventional as it may be.


I want him to know that there is no single “right” way to live. He is free to choose his path, to follow his curiosity, and to redefine success and stability for himself. And sometimes, the greatest adventure isn’t in reaching a destination—it’s in trusting the journey, finding beauty in the in-between spaces, and seeing each new horizon as an invitation to begin again.


Choosing a Life Aligned with Freedom


Ultimately, this transition into a nomadic lifestyle is about more than just travel. It’s about creating a life that aligns with our values—freedom, curiosity, and presence. It’s about choosing experience over accumulation, connection over conformity, and authenticity over comfort.


There will be moments of doubt and exhaustion. But there will also be moments of wonder, discovery, and pure joy. And that’s what I’m making space for—a life rich with experiences, a life that’s spacious enough to hold all of who we are.

Because in the end, this isn’t about building a life that’s simply different. It’s about building a life that’s true. One that’s unbound, unburdened, and free—for both of us.


This is the kind of freedom I’m chasing—one intentional, beautiful, and uncertain step at a time.



XoXo,

Sia

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